As a therapist in the Healing House, one of the quiet privileges of one-on-one sessions is the conversation that sometimes comes with them, thought-provoking exchanges with guests from all over the world.
Some prefer to stay quiet, letting the stillness of the music or the Sand River outside do the talking. Others love to chat, and we cover all sorts of ground: travel plans, family life, personal health, favourite foods.
A recent conversation with a guest turned to a simple question:
What do I love most about working at Londolozi?
I paused for a while before I answered.
“Each day is different. When you work with people in a wellness capacity, there are so many layers to it. I love the physical work, the actual process of loosening and releasing tight muscles and fascia, using your hands and your own body. On an emotional and spiritual level, I love the space it creates for someone to be still and go inward. To process, accept and release traumas or difficult circumstances. Or simply to just be, without an agenda.
It’s the same with teaching yoga. I love watching people slow down and pay real attention to how their body feels, watching them learn to breathe deeply and move with intention.”
The guest asked further:
“And how do you stay invested, working for weeks on end without a break, without losing your enthusiasm?”
I paused again, gathering my honest thoughts.
“We do pause in between. But I think what makes it sustainable is staying in presence.”

Sometimes, I can’t help myself but snap a quick pic of the sunrise, and this time of year is perfect for that.
Londolozi’s entire model is built around the humanness of the experience, a connection that no technology can replace. It starts with the first interaction with the reservations team, and continues through the warm greeting from a camp manager, ranger and tracker on arrival, the front-of-house team who remember your name, the small detail of knowing which foods to offer and which to avoid, the personalised birthday cake, the cooler box packed just so, the bedding turned down exactly right. Once you’ve touched fingertips with this model, you know it’s sincere. Everyone is paying attention to the detail and in each moment.
There is always a great deal to plan and arrange behind the scenes, yet the staff greet and interact in a way that is wholesome and fully present, looking into people’s eyes, listening to what is said and to what isn’t.
Having had the privilege of living and working on-site for many years, I’ve watched this model of warmth and presence pass down from the very top, through knowing and working alongside the Varty family. Much of that has happened through the Healing House and on retreats.
Traditional and sincere, the family holds to a few core values: handwritten notes, personal messages to staff and guests for special occasions, sitting around a table at mealtimes without phones or iPads, and honest storytelling passed through generations, in handprinted photographs, in albums, in the shared labour of business and village life. Every staff member is personally known by the family, who take a genuine interest in their wellbeing, not because they have to, but because of who they are. They understand that when people feel seen, heard and looked after, it ripples outward onto every guest they, in turn, touch fingertips with.
When you are at Londolozi, the noise of the city falls away: the scrolling, the schedules, the to-do lists. What’s left is the raw land, the animals, the depth of every interaction, an environment that asks nothing of you except to be in your senses and pay attention. And in that, the magic around you is amplified.
Being in presence is the state of being fully anchored in the here and now. Mind, body and emotions focused entirely on the current moment, undistracted by the past, the future, or wandering thoughts.
And how rare, in a world full of noise, future plans and online profiles, to find a place in the African wilderness that still bases its values on the human essence of connection: to what is here, right now, right in front of you.
So, to conclude: I love the work. I love the presence. I love Londolozi for this, presence is its heart-centre.
For everyone who steps onto this land, our deep hope is that you move from a world of doing into the experiential world of being, recalibrating through the raw presence of the African wilderness at Londolozi.






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